Comments on: Problems To Marry Iranian Girl http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/ Lady from the east; Mysterious, Pure, Feminine.. Fri, 11 Dec 2009 02:37:28 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Helen http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-21469 Helen Sat, 28 Nov 2009 18:05:04 +0000 http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/and-there-are-problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-21469 Iranians: Ok, first A lot of Iranians are Arabs, so the comment about them being prejudiced is a lie or ignorance due to a run in with one or two people. People who are thinking clearly do not judge an entire race by a couple people. Second, a lot of Iranians are Persians and all Iranians I have met are sweet and good. Third, they are not permitted to be boyfriend girlfriend and have sex and can get into serious trouble for this because it is AGAINST BEING MUSLIM. In Quran it clearly states that we are not to fornicate. Sex before marriage is NOT ALLOWED. Fourth, being modest, a true Muslim will not air their problems and NEVER EVER discuss sex on an open public board--SHAME ON YOU that have. Read your Quran. I am not born a Muslim and am SHOCKED that I seem to know more about Quran than MANY people who had the priviledge to be born Muslim. This is because THEY DO NOT KNOW WHAT IS IN QURAN--THEY DO NOT STUDY IT, and even in Quran it says Quran is a grace and a mercy, put there to read for this purpose. Also, the person writing about how they are kind to Americans and not Arabs ...umm I am American by birth and I got to get followed around over there when I visit because I am American and USA likes to send spies and aggravate Iran, so they are not too kind by necessity. Maybe you read about the 3 Americans (OMG that one need to be in jail just because his rap video was so bad), that crossed the Iranian border by "accident" , all around the age of the usual CIA agents etc. and ppl think its bad they are in jail. What do you think we would do to an Iranian if they "accidentally" crossed the US border? Try they would have been gone 2-3 years, tied up, getting defecation on them in Guantanamo. I am a realistic person and I tell it like I see it. :) Iranians:
Ok, first A lot of Iranians are Arabs, so the comment about them being prejudiced is a lie or ignorance due to a run in with one or two people. People who are thinking clearly do not judge an entire race by a couple people.

Second, a lot of Iranians are Persians and all Iranians I have met are sweet and good. Third, they are not permitted to be boyfriend girlfriend and have sex and can get into serious trouble for this because it is AGAINST BEING MUSLIM.

In Quran it clearly states that we are not to fornicate. Sex before marriage is NOT ALLOWED. Fourth, being modest, a true Muslim will not air their problems and NEVER EVER discuss sex on an open public board–SHAME ON YOU that have. Read your Quran. I am not born a Muslim and am SHOCKED that I seem to know more about Quran than MANY people who had the priviledge to be born Muslim. This is because THEY DO NOT KNOW WHAT IS IN QURAN–THEY DO NOT STUDY IT, and even in Quran it says Quran is a grace and a mercy, put there to read for this purpose.

Also, the person writing about how they are kind to Americans and not Arabs …umm I am American by birth and I got to get followed around over there when I visit because I am American and USA likes to send spies and aggravate Iran, so they are not too kind by necessity.

Maybe you read about the 3 Americans (OMG that one need to be in jail just because his rap video was so bad), that crossed the Iranian border by “accident” , all around the age of the usual CIA agents etc. and ppl think its bad they are in jail. What do you think we would do to an Iranian if they “accidentally” crossed the US border? Try they would have been gone 2-3 years, tied up, getting defecation on them in Guantanamo. I am a realistic person and I tell it like I see it. :)

]]> By: Adam http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-19575 Adam Wed, 04 Nov 2009 21:57:45 +0000 http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/and-there-are-problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-19575 Be Aware! NEVER marry Iranian girls! In general, Iranian people are very racist against other people and cultures especially Arabs. In fact, they are the most racist people against Arabs. However, they're not very racist against Westerners such as the Americans and Europeans even if they are non muslims! They claim to be Muslims but they are very nationalistic. They don't know that Islam has no nationality or geography. Be Aware! NEVER marry Iranian girls! In general, Iranian people are very racist against other people and cultures especially Arabs. In fact, they are the most racist people against Arabs. However, they’re not very racist against Westerners such as the Americans and Europeans even if they are non muslims!

They claim to be Muslims but they are very nationalistic. They don’t know that Islam has no nationality or geography.

]]> By: Jesus salazar http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-19419 Jesus salazar Wed, 21 Oct 2009 02:38:18 +0000 http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/and-there-are-problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-19419 The Iranian woman is wonderful, they have a great tradition and they are faithful. In the USA, people is different. This country have a freedom in the religion and the laws are careful with this one, so the traditions are forgotten by some people. I would like to know a iranian woman, but no inside of the USA. Lol The Iranian woman is wonderful, they have a great tradition and they are faithful. In the USA, people is different. This country have a freedom in the religion and the laws are careful with this one, so the traditions are forgotten by some people. I would like to know a iranian woman, but no inside of the USA. Lol

]]> By: hasan http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-19224 hasan Sun, 04 Oct 2009 01:05:18 +0000 http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/and-there-are-problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-19224 iranian women must marry iranian man because non iranians are f***ing a******s.!! irani ba irani bayad bashad. f*** american! f*** arabs! f*** europeanns!! iranian women must marry iranian man because non iranians are f***ing a******s.!! irani ba irani bayad bashad.
f*** american! f*** arabs! f*** europeanns!!

]]> By: divs http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18877 divs Tue, 08 Sep 2009 06:59:51 +0000 http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/and-there-are-problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18877 Hi Shahrzad, I really like your blog. Thanks for sharing :) I have TOTALLY fallen for this Iranian girl that comes to my gym. How I feel about her is ineffable and something like this has never happened to me before! I am an Indian and she also lives here. All I know about her is that she is an Iranian. I have been thinking of piling enough iron to go and talk to her. She doesn't talk to anyone at the gym where she comes for yoga classes. So, I don't even know how to approach her. I just can't stop noticing and thinking about her. I have come across many girls but I have never felt this way. It is very overwhelming to be totally in for someone I haven't even talked to, but I can't control :) I mean her first sight kind of melted me! Hi Shahrzad,

I really like your blog. Thanks for sharing :) I have TOTALLY fallen for this Iranian girl that comes to my gym. How I feel about her is ineffable and something like this has never happened to me before!

I am an Indian and she also lives here. All I know about her is that she is an Iranian. I have been thinking of piling enough iron to go and talk to her. She doesn’t talk to anyone at the gym where she comes for yoga classes. So, I don’t even know how to approach her.

I just can’t stop noticing and thinking about her. I have come across many girls but I have never felt this way. It is very overwhelming to be totally in for someone I haven’t even talked to, but I can’t control :) I mean her first sight kind of melted me!

]]> By: Helen http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18603 Helen Tue, 18 Aug 2009 16:44:25 +0000 http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/and-there-are-problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18603 If you are an Iranian girl and are a Muslim, you are not allowed to marry a non-Muslim unless he converts. You do not mention the religion of your boyfriend. As for Iranian culture. It is DIFFERENT not wrong and IRAN is one of the LAST places on this planet where marriage and family work. The Media is censoring everything about Iran to break them. They are one of the last countries the USA does not control. I feel USA will try to start a war to do what they did in the other Mid Eastern countries. I do not like people who play God personally. I have an Iranian fiance but we are married in eyes of Allah. We are practicing to our religion and waiting each other til we have formal paper work. I converted to Islam in 2007 and there is no way for a Muslim to marry a non Muslim who does not expect to convert. Now that I am a Muslim, I would never marry a non Muslim. There are too many things that would break the bond. Covering is a big one. Women who are Muslim by Quran must cover feet, ankles, legs, arms, top, and hair. THEY MUST. They have to obey their husbands too. Obviously if husband say go run in front of train ..you got to question, but this is a scenario that don't usually happen...my fiance is very kind and smart. He is level headed. When my being a women makes me crazy, he has saved me more then enough times so I completely trust that if he tells me ..no absolutely no..I need to listen to him. The man is naturally stronger then the woman and meant to protect her. I do not see this as bondage, oppression or whatever other derogatory term men haters use. I see it as my Alka Seltzer..oh what a relief not to have to deal with stuff I wasn't meant to deal with, and I am American born. :) Not proud that I am but proud I was given an opportunity to see outside of a very tight box of government/elitist control..Enshallah!! :) If you are an Iranian girl and are a Muslim, you are not allowed to marry a non-Muslim unless he converts. You do not mention the religion of your boyfriend. As for Iranian culture. It is DIFFERENT not wrong and IRAN is one of the LAST places on this planet where marriage and family work.

The Media is censoring everything about Iran to break them. They are one of the last countries the USA does not control. I feel USA will try to start a war to do what they did in the other Mid Eastern countries. I do not like people who play God personally.

I have an Iranian fiance but we are married in eyes of Allah. We are practicing to our religion and waiting each other til we have formal paper work. I converted to Islam in 2007 and there is no way for a Muslim to marry a non Muslim who does not expect to convert.

Now that I am a Muslim, I would never marry a non Muslim. There are too many things that would break the bond. Covering is a big one. Women who are Muslim by Quran must cover feet, ankles, legs, arms, top, and hair. THEY MUST. They have to obey their husbands too.

Obviously if husband say go run in front of train ..you got to question, but this is a scenario that don’t usually happen…my fiance is very kind and smart. He is level headed. When my being a women makes me crazy, he has saved me more then enough times so I completely trust that if he tells me ..no absolutely no..I need to listen to him.

The man is naturally stronger then the woman and meant to protect her. I do not see this as bondage, oppression or whatever other derogatory term men haters use. I see it as my Alka Seltzer..oh what a relief not to have to deal with stuff I wasn’t meant to deal with, and I am American born. :)

Not proud that I am but proud I was given an opportunity to see outside of a very tight box of government/elitist control..Enshallah!! :)

]]> By: Nazi http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18587 Nazi Mon, 17 Aug 2009 15:40:00 +0000 http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/and-there-are-problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18587 Hi Shahrzad, Its really interesting to talk about marry a Iranian girl. I'm Iranian girl I have a Brazilian boyfriend. We are thinking to get marry. But we give time to ourselves to know eachother more. We had some discussion about the Iranian cultures but he read something in the web and news which is not really thru. He sent me this link (http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/ ) and asks me to give him my commentaries about this text. But I’m really not able to open his eyes that Iranian peoples and cultures are not really as he read in some news and stories. Hi Shahrzad,
Its really interesting to talk about marry a Iranian girl.
I’m Iranian girl I have a Brazilian boyfriend. We are thinking to get marry. But we give time to ourselves to know eachother more. We had some discussion about the Iranian cultures but he read something in the web and news which is not really thru. He sent me this link (http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/ ) and asks me to give him my commentaries about this text.
But I’m really not able to open his eyes that Iranian peoples and cultures are not really as he read in some news and stories.

]]> By: Helen http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18463 Helen Sat, 08 Aug 2009 23:57:48 +0000 http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/and-there-are-problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18463 Are you Muslim? Asking for a reason, trying to think of ways to help you. Helen Are you Muslim? Asking for a reason, trying to think of ways to help you.

Helen

]]> By: sohail http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18452 sohail Sat, 08 Aug 2009 14:21:54 +0000 http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/and-there-are-problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18452 Hi shahzaad Perhaps u dont remind me.before six months i wrote u about the problem to marry with an iranian widow. As u guided me the link about new iranian law in which if girl can give in written then no need for documents. But First of all i should thank to you ,that link gave me the hope to visit again to iran ,and alhumdulah her parent agreed n sheikh performed our nikah illegally n then we proceeded for the registration at ministry of external affairs n also my wife gave them in written that no need of ne document . After three months ministry of external affair ,refused that there is any new law in which on girls request no need of document .....i am still confused ...plz clarify that how i can prove that there is ne law in which on girls request no need of hectic documentation. Further more ,i go through hectic process for preparing such documents like non criminal record ,unmaried proof ..income certificate and faced interview .......Now the problem is that .they take me in written and also frm my wife i never claim for iranian nationality n always i ve to come on tourist visa . second they want the property document from me . third they are asking all document shld be attested by iran embasy in india as i am indian national and my income document frm uae iran embasy cos i am working in uae. i am still working on it ,but i always think if there is existence of such law in which no need of document then why shld i do ....if u say me i wan to follow that too but not remain dependent on that law completely Second ,is it any law that if foriegn shld marry with irani girl he will not get nationality ...atleast i shld get long term visa ...i exactly dont know neither my wife knows..all hope is upon u ...plz give me some detailed and usefull answer ,when u ve enough spare time .cos ur one single line turns too good for me ..may be ur detailed summary removes all hurdles.. always ur sincere sohail Hi shahzaad

Perhaps u dont remind me.before six months i wrote u about the problem to marry with an iranian widow.
As u guided me the link about new iranian law in which if girl can give in written then no need for documents.

But First of all i should thank to you ,that link gave me the hope to visit again to iran ,and alhumdulah her parent agreed n sheikh performed our nikah illegally n then we proceeded for the registration at ministry of external affairs n also my wife gave them in written that no need of ne document .

After three months ministry of external affair ,refused that there is any new law in which on girls request no need of document …..i am still confused …plz clarify that how i can prove that there is ne law in which on girls request no need of hectic documentation.

Further more ,i go through hectic process for preparing such documents like non criminal record ,unmaried proof ..income certificate and faced interview …….Now the problem is that .they take me in written and also frm my wife i never claim for iranian nationality n always i ve to come on tourist visa .
second they want the property document from me .

third they are asking all document shld be attested by iran embasy in india as i am indian national and my income document frm uae iran embasy cos i am working in uae.

i am still working on it ,but i always think if there is existence of such law in which no need of document then why shld i do ….if u say me i wan to follow that too but not remain dependent on that law completely

Second ,is it any law that if foriegn shld marry with irani girl he will not get nationality …atleast i shld get long term visa …i exactly dont know neither my wife knows..all hope is upon u …plz give me some detailed and usefull answer ,when u ve enough spare time .cos ur one single line turns too good for me ..may be ur detailed summary removes all hurdles..

always ur sincere
sohail

]]> By: uma http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18279 uma Wed, 29 Jul 2009 17:26:12 +0000 http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/and-there-are-problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18279 such an informative blog ..thnx such an informative blog ..thnx

]]> By: Nazir http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18222 Nazir Sun, 26 Jul 2009 19:48:05 +0000 http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/and-there-are-problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18222 Hi! I'm brazilian 40 years old and live in Rio de Janeiro - brazil. I'm separeted with 2 kids that lives with the mother. I have some iranian friends here in Brazil and in US. So I starded to read about Iran and its people. I LOVED... Now I want to meet an iranian girl for a long relationship. At least for the rest of my days. Do you think thats possible? How can I do that? Thanx. Hi! I’m brazilian 40 years old and live in Rio de Janeiro – brazil. I’m separeted with 2 kids that lives with the mother. I have some iranian friends here in Brazil and in US. So I starded to read about Iran and its people. I LOVED… Now I want to meet an iranian girl for a long relationship. At least for the rest of my days. Do you think thats possible? How can I do that? Thanx.

]]> By: Ali http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18162 Ali Thu, 23 Jul 2009 16:38:35 +0000 http://shahrzaad.wordpress.com/2007/10/06/and-there-are-problems-to-marry-iranian-girl/#comment-18162 Salaam to all, Thank you for all this "Shahrzaad". Hope all of you are doing fine. Well I am Muslim and living in Uk, recently i fell in love with a girl from iran(Tabriz). She lives in tabriz and studying. I want to know few things 1- How are irani girls In general? 2- Specially from Tabriz? are they loyal? 3- How can i get married to her and what is the easiest way? I have been to iran many times and somehow know their culture. But still it would be great of you could help me out. do i need to have a lawyer here or do i need to travel to iran to marry or what?? 4- Can she adjust with my culture (Asian) ? and be able to live in Uk? 5- Do they like to live in Joint family or live seprately? any one from iran please pass your views? 6- What kind o job do they prefer? 7- Do they really have islamic values? as tabriz is more close to Turkey and azerbijan.. as i have been to turkey and azerbijan.. Most people are muslim by name only... so that was reason of my question? 8- I have seen her once and since than we are talking over the phone, emails, chat etcc.... I want to meet her again.. she says that in iran laws are very strict.. she can not meet me or she wil be in trouble if anyone sees... than I asked her to visit me in uk, which she says that she can not travel alone, because in iran girls can not travel abroad? can anyone suggest me anything, how can i meet her?? can i meet her in Tabriz? or tehran? or anywhere in the world where she can come alone? ( she also wants to meet me) 9- I am 25 years old and she is 24, does this matters for irani girls.. i mean age difference is less? 10- can anyone suggest me so that i can convince her to come to Uk (Or else where) and live with me? as she is very worried , she wants me to live in iran? please suggest me anything which i can convince her? Please help and advice. Thank you in advance... gold bless you all.. Regards Ali Salaam to all,

Thank you for all this “Shahrzaad”. Hope all of you are doing fine. Well I am Muslim and living in Uk, recently i fell in love with a girl from iran(Tabriz). She lives in tabriz and studying. I want to know few things

1- How are irani girls In general?
2- Specially from Tabriz? are they loyal?
3- How can i get married to her and what is the easiest way? I have been to iran many times and somehow know their culture. But still it would be great of you could help me out. do i need to have a lawyer here or do i need to travel to iran to marry or what??
4- Can she adjust with my culture (Asian) ? and be able to live in Uk?

5- Do they like to live in Joint family or live seprately? any one from iran please pass your views?

6- What kind o job do they prefer?

7- Do they really have islamic values? as tabriz is more close to Turkey and azerbijan.. as i have been to turkey and azerbijan.. Most people are muslim by name only… so that was reason of my question?

8- I have seen her once and since than we are talking over the phone, emails, chat etcc…. I want to meet her again.. she says that in iran laws are very strict.. she can not meet me or she wil be in trouble if anyone sees… than I asked her to visit me in uk, which she says that she can not travel alone, because in iran girls can not travel abroad? can anyone suggest me anything, how can i meet her?? can i meet her in Tabriz? or tehran? or anywhere in the world where she can come alone? ( she also wants to meet me)

9- I am 25 years old and she is 24, does this matters for irani girls.. i mean age difference is less?

10- can anyone suggest me so that i can convince her to come to Uk (Or else where) and live with me? as she is very worried , she wants me to live in iran? please suggest me anything which i can convince her?

Please help and advice.

Thank you in advance… gold bless you all..
Regards
Ali

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