The New Hijab In Iran

Iranian girlNicolas Christoph, NewYork Times reporter in an article says something strange about Iranian society: “In first years of revolution in Iran a woman or girl would be punished for not wearing the islamic hijab mentioned in Law book. Yet nowadays she wears some clothes that not only doesn’t hide her beauti, but also makes it more apparent!”
And he is right in many ways..

29 years after Islamic Revolution in Iran, Iranians are still emotionally religious. They celebrate their Religious festivals and appreciate their beliefs . But there is a new culture that growing up day to day more. Even if this culture is under influence of events in a century ago, however nowadays it is going to come up with different face.

Almost less than a century ago, Iranians opposed the new law by Reza Shah, the Pahlawi king of Iran, which forced Iranian women to remove their Hijab.

He was that much strong in his decision that had sent many policemen in the streets and they were ruled to remove Chador, Niqab and even scarfs from women’s head. For years Iranian women defended their hijab and even some women didn’t go out the home in the society up to resign of Reza Shah.

I believe that people are like metal coils. When you push the metal coil, it pushes you back. When you  stop pushing, it will fly and open up at the maximum of its power. And that’s what happened in Iranian society.

http://www.rozanehmagazine.com/JylyAugust05/Tehran3.jpg

After Islamic revolution, suddenly the atmosphere changed to be very religious. I really don’t remember those years for I am from the first generation after Islamic revolution. Yet from what I read and heard, Hijab automatically has been publitized. Day to day more women wore hijab and little by little it made  a mandatory of Hijab in the society. That’s true that Hijab or Islamic veil came to be mandatory 2 or 3 years after revolution. Before that who got to be unveiled, there was not any problem for her.

Anyway, during Iraq-Iran war, Iran was also under too much political and economical pressure and the way of Hijab wearing was same.

But after war, the years were years of rebuilding. The first generation was teenager . They had their own needs and ideas, different from their parents and the society they were living in.

Nowadays in Iran, less girls really care about hijab. This problem is more in big cities like Tehran, Shiraz, Mashhad and Isfahan. Specially Tehran, as a city with white culture, usually appoints the culture of other cities. Tehrani Culture, from its veil, its lifestyle, and  worries of people is transferred year after year to the rest of Iran. The new generation in Iran had to face so many difficulties. They’re enduring the ruins that war brought for them, the ill economycal management, and unemployment.

I agree with Cristoph when he says: “Iranian Youth want to change the laws.” Nowadays wearing Chador or Niqab in Tehran is more weird than wearing tight, thin and rictal clothes. Wearing a n appropriate scarf, without showing hair is more weird than wearing kind of scarf that are more similar to Headband. That’s their way to make it more beautiful and attractive, instead of covering their highlighted hair. Finding a modest mantou – the Iran’s islamic dress code- is as difficult as finding needle in granary.

161.jpgRemember again, that Iranians are emotionally religious. So what happened to Iranian society that tries to wear strange? Kind of veil that is more similar to a sarcasm toward religion, instead of  a suitable and modest hijab? That’s not the result of Mandatory  of Hijab in Iran?

That’s famous that Iranian women in other countries are the most immodest muslims in wearing clothes. I saw with my two eyes that in foreigner flights when the planes passes the borders, Iranian women quickly start to remove their dress codes.

God says in Quran: ” It is not required of thee O Messenger to set them on the right path, but Allah sets on the right path whom He pleaseth” (2:272)

And somewhere else says:” If it had been Allah’s plan, they would not have taken false gods: but We made thee not one to watch over their doings, nor art thou set over them to dispose of their affairs.” (6:107)

There is no restriction or force to accept religion and its laws. Iranians have shown in the history that they accept religion when it is offered freely and not by force. They also have showed that defend their beliefs when others want to oppose it. Like what they did against Reza Shah’s mandatory of being unvelied.

Even though, The new hijab epidemy is not something just in Iran but also it is growing up in whole Muslim world. Yet I personally know the Iranian government is responsible for the problem.

Irani girlsFreedom of wearing is one of human rights.. I as a muslim woman want this wrong atmosphere get changed. I am worried. Modesty is something that most women in Iran are really concerned about. I don’t want when non-Iranians hear my nationality, suddenly suppose me as an immodest woman. What nowadays is famous about Iranian women.

I wear modest so if somebody judge me with kind of labels, I will never forgive Iranian leaders. They are responsible and must find a solution.

Now that’s duty of Iranian leaders to let women chose hijab by own. The lawful pressure of  being veiled or unveied was never successful in Iran.

In this way, maybe who want to wear hijab, wear it in its true way and don’t be labeled for what some other women wear. And who don’t want to be veiled, at least don’t make joke by this beautiful religion!

91 Responses to “The New Hijab In Iran”

  1. Umm Yusuf Says:

    Mash’Allah Sister! I really enjoyed reading this!

  2. Achelois Says:

    I see your point Shahrzad, but this is what happens when anyone is forced to do something they don’t necessarily believe in themselves. For instance I don’t like public nudity and if I were asked to bare myself by my government I would try my best to hide as much body as possible. I have a couple of Iranian friends and they desperately wanted to get out of their situations. One married an English and moved to the UK. Another lives in the Gulf but is often seen in mini-skirts and shorts. They both think that enforcing strict laws on them made them reject them totally. You should see what some Saudi women wear under their abayas. And so I agree with you totally when you place the blame on the government and not these women.

    Loved this post!

    Please give my salaam to your mum for me!

  3. aMmAr Says:

    i am kind of confused here Shahrzad, i read Imam Khameni’s fatwas and solution on various problems. When it came to Hijab his take was; that a man cant force his wife or sis. So why the supreme leader made it mandatory in the country of yours?

  4. aMmAr Says:

    the website that i refer to is leader.ir

  5. Shahrzad Says:

    Umm Yusuf, Thank you dear :)

    Achelois, True.. That’s major problem in muslim world that they see religion in Persons. They see folan “religious” person acts stupid and they say:”Oh so that’s Islam. I give it up.”
    Unfortunately, except the name of Islamic on my country, i dont see any Islamic culture nowadays. Government doesnt produce an Islamic culture, and doesnt educate youths to grow up Islamic. Our religion got ended in some boring “religious Aspects” books, taught by some more boring and dogmatic and unintellectual teachers in schools and university. I personaly always used to hate them.. But Islam is not this.. I found Islam and its beauty by own and that’s duty of every single person to seek truth.. ;)
    I have to agree with you about Saudi women too. For when i went to umra, i saw women wearing niqab and Abayah, yet when they removed that in women place for Wudu, or in a store to shop, i could see lots of make up on their face. That much make up, i could never never believe that a woman can tolarate it.

    P.S: Sure sweet Suroor. I do :)

  6. Shahrzad Says:

    Ammar, I really dont know who made a mandatory hijab in Iran. I know the Fatwa by Ayatullah Khumaini. I think even the first years of revolution he was who didnt let others make a mandatory hijab.
    I remember in presidential era of Ayatullah Rafsanjani, even CD and Video Player were banned. Funny.. Isnt it?..And the most restriction for Hijab was in 8 presidential years of him..
    Nowadays who are in power, are not from those who made that big revolution in Iran.

  7. aMmAr Says:

    But I am sure Ayatullah Khamenai played an important role in the great Iranian reolution and hes the man in command(the supreme leader). rite?

    Anyway, we back here in Pakistan find the revolution full of inspiration and an example to follow. Besides Iranian women look much wonderful with Hijab and all, it accentuates their natural beauty (Just a common observation).

  8. Shahrzad Says:

    Ammar, I am sure too that he had the main role in Islamic revolution in Iran.. You are right..
    I see your point about Iranian revolution and its inspiration, not just in Pakistan, but also in many muslim countries.
    And I know in all revolution, there are restrict days at first and so was in Iran. But i agree that we criticize what is going wrong in my country and appreciate what is right. People who are in power, are not God so.. They do mistakes. We should not cover mistakes blindly. It harms more.. For problems get bigger and uncontrollable day to day..

  9. Alloush Says:

    Forcing to wear Hijab or Remove it is act of stupidity…

    Hijab is something between the God and the Female, non has the right to interfere between them…

    I’m totally against any kind of Mixing between Islam and politics, Islam is a religion, it’s not a kingdom or republic, it’s not a ruling system…

  10. Shahrzad Says:

    Alloush, Islam is the only political religion in the world. I dont agree that our religion doesnt cover politics, for it does do it. And it had political leader by Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) since first. That’s why Islam is a complete religion.
    Yet i too disagree completely with puting religious aspects in minds by force.
    I am hijabi girl in other countries too, yet in Iran i really feel my scarf is not my choice. I want to choose it by own. People enjoy when they have a right to choose it. Otherwise, that’s just suffering and torture.

  11. Sumera Says:

    I agree with Achelois. When you force something on someone, they will turn the opposite way and perhaps behave more “extreme” than they normally would. In a country where hijaab is made mandatory there is no “choice” and you are right, where there is no choice it becomes a torture for the individual. Some would argue hijaab isn’t a choice, its a requirement so they should just “get on with it” - someone should plonk those people over the head.

  12. Shahrzad Says:

    Sumera, Right.. That’s why i am worried. For we are going to have both kind of extrimists in Iran!! Extrimist Religious, and Extrimist non religious.. Now kind of girls when see a girl with hijab, start to ridicule her.. That’s the reason that many girls left hijab and started to be color of non-religious girls.. They didnt want to be ridiculed.. :(

  13. Alloush Says:

    But Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) was not a political leader, he was a prophet, a messenger of God, the god says” إنما أنت بمذكر لست عليهم بمسيطر” = “you are just a reminder, you are not here to control them” sorry i don’t have English Quraan.

    The structure of Islam doesn’t contain a political theme, there is no description what kind of ruling we have, is it kingdom , or republic, who will choose the presdint, the people or the God (since our prophet is chosen by god, not by people).

    Islam is a complete religion, and it doesn’t need to contain political theme to be complete, infact, any religion contain political structure it will fail, the prophet said “أنا أعلم بامور دينكم وأنتم أعلم بأمور دنياكم” = I know about your religion and you knew about your life” sorry i don’t have the exact translation.

    Muslims can live weather they are in a Muslim nation or not, cause Islam focus from the human to the nation not from the nation to the human.

    Islam describe the relation between YOU and your God, between YOU and your self, and Between you add your community.

    So it’s a complete religion cause it’s related to you, not to a ruling system or a nation.

    I respect your point of view, hope u understand me.

  14. Shahrzad Says:

    Religion does not represent a condition that can be detached from life; like politics does not represent a limited condition in the affairs of humankind.

    If religion extends to every aspect of daily life, how can we restrict it to a specific area? And if religion extends to every aspect of human life, how can we restrict it to a specific sphere?
    Specification and limitation usually are for things which can be particularized. So how can we seek to limit that which does not accept particularization and which covers every aspect of life?

    Yes, it is possible to have specification in religious culture and its facets, and the same in political culture and its individual spheres.
    But cultural specialization is one thing and specialization of the role of something is another. There is a difference in saying that the role of religion is a limited one in a particular arena, with no relation at all to politics; and that the role of politics is limited to a specific setting which bears no relation at all to religion. The reason is that religion plays a role in every aspect of life and political facet; and politics plays a role in every aspect of life and religious facet.

    For example We have Jihad as one of our pillars. Mentioned freuqently in Quran. Of course the greater Jihad is Jihad against Nafs or Ego or Self.. Yet we have also Jihad Al Asqar..
    During prophetic era, who was the leader raising army to fight at enemies?
    We believe the Islamic Prophet Muhammad as the leader of the ummah at Medina. If you say he was not political leader, how he would go for jihad?
    If he was not political leader, and islam was not political religion, why our prophet and the new ummah would need to jihad? Why there was a need to another religion like Islam so? Christianity is a religion in the seek of spiritual aspects and in the sake of Shari’ah, Jewish religion is more restrict than Islam.
    And why there was a need that khulafa fight at Persia and Rome empires to send the “Islamic message” to other “nations”? Of course persians and Romans were not from their “community”. There were another “Nations”.

    In a hadith, prophet says:
    “There are two groups from my ummah -if they are righteous, the whole umma will be righteous, and if they are corrupt, then the whole umma will be corrupt.” He was asked, “O Messenger of God, who are these two?” He said, “The jurists and the rulers.”

    and another hadith:
    “Whoever rises and does not concern himself with the affairs of the Muslims is not a Muslim.”

  15. Alloush Says:

    I respect your point of view, still not convinced..

    Islam is only a way of life, it’s not a state, or Kingdom, or Republic.

    Islam tells me which way to take but it doesn’t tell you how to walk.

    There is no such a thing called Islamic empire.
    There is Ommwy empire, Abbasi empire Mamluki empire, Othmani empire, etc.

    Our prophet is not sent to build a state or a kingdom, is not sent to sit on chair, or ruling the people, he was sent to ask people to worship one GOD…that’s all.

    About the wars, it was defending war.

    If you look to history you will find that each time politic mixed with relegion bad things happens, cause people can’t say no to spiritual leader, they think he is blessd from God..

    that’s my view ;)

  16. Xavier Says:

    Oh my God ; this girl in the article foto seems like being surgically reconstructed.. I believe hijab should be enforced on her in addition to face cover too.. Sorry !!!

    Lets see; Islam is a universal manifest from the creator of all.. when you buy a new TV or any other equipment you are advised to read the manufacturer manual.. you want humanity to function perfectly well? read and implement the teachings in the manual; the Quran.. the creator says; women are to cover up; OK women cover up..when you are out of your sexual arena and sacred home you will be subject to lustful desires of the male population..even in the west who plays the civilization tone their cries to free women are mostly driven by the male’s desire to enjoy the women of the world and open the doors for vast possibilities to consume as much as possible of the free exposed flesh.. Sisters listen to me: I am a man and you better believe me that any man wants his wife to be his alone like she wants him hers.. women should not encourage that women be used as sexual objects, the more she takes off for public display the more the male’s sexual energy gets diversified, he will always be comparing his woman to the women who run free outside marriage.. a woman in society has to be respected for her real worth as human and as a mental being and not merely as a sexual object to please the lustful needs of men. In Islam sexuality is contained in marriage and so it should remain.
    So why is this much fuss about the Islam attire named hijab? Hijab means barrier.. it means a woman wears whatever creates a barrier between her feminine charms and the unlawful needs of the males. instead of governments enforcing this hijab it is more logical that the society is educated the right way and then most women will have free choice to advertise themselves as sexual objects or equal human identities who communicate on equal level with men.. I consider myself a practicing Muslim; I refrain from illegal sexual encounters but i honestly tell you i spend so much effort resisting temptations.. a new generation of women nowadays had become accustomed to extend their sexual appetites like men do and are more ready to venture into free sex. Is it not natural that we all love to receive our presents “wrapped” and we do the unfolding? why is so much fuss about humans being wrapped nicely before they get unwrapped by their legitimate user? including me of course..

  17. Tia Says:

    I think I am going to disagree with the idea that if forced, individuals will do the opposite. The idea perhaps stems from observing attitude of very small children where the thinking has not developed enough for them to distinguish good from bad. Individuals human beings with fully developed thinking are bit complicated than a simple reactionary matter. Individuals in any society behave according to the laws of society generically, though there will be laws which won’t necessarily agree with their upbringing along with the fact that human beings have rebellious disposition, thus in any society laws would be broken. In Britain it is illegal to drive without seat belt or to handle the cell phone whilst driving, both for safety reasons, yet people will drive without seat belt and carry on using cell phone as long as they can get away with it… away from the eyes of the old bob. Similarly, people will jump the red light even when its not emergency as long as there are no cameras and they can get away with it. People always complain about high taxes, yet they still pay taxes and only a few attempt to evade taxes because the system works. That is probably the most likely reason for people to not break laws, to pay taxes, wear seat belt, stay within the speed limit etc because the system works. And this in my opinion is the fundamental difference between the west and Muslim countries where the system is not fully functioning.

    The missing ingredient from societies in Muslim world is lack of thought which makes the laws work. There is too much emphasis on radical change, the Iranian revolution is a prime example, and a one which is seen as ideal by many outside Iran. The problem with radical change is that there is no real ideological substance to shape the thinking of the masses, they are forced to obey laws, whereas their rebellious instinct will begin to break these laws so long as they ca get away with it and slowly the laws will collapse. Therefore, ideological make-up of society is fundamental aspect of change.

    The ideal Islamic polity established by Prophet (saw) in Madinah was not a radically changed society even though the Prophet (saw) took power and radically implemented the Islamic laws. The State functioned correctly because individuals, including the non-Muslims in Madina had gone through the ideological make-up to conform with the world-view of Islam, so when the laws of Khimar and Jilbab were revealed the women of Madinah, far from resisting or protesting, they tore curtains and sheets to form their dress. This was due to the fact that the Prophet (saw) had sent the noble companion Mus’ab ibn Umayr who worked, taught, discussed, debated and preached to the people of Madina for over a decade prior to taking power.

    I think Muslims who recognise their purpose of creation and accept Islam as the divine truth, yet however they feel free to choose between the divine truth and the commandments contained in it for something else, without regret, is the kind of dangerous concepts which require conditioning prior to enforcing of Islamic laws.

  18. Shahrzad Says:

    Alloush,
    maybe our definition of politics is different from each other.
    That’s why we can not convince each other so.. Politics particularly doesnt mean just “making state or government”. It is very general word. Totally it can be related to whole aspects of human’s life. From science to Economics.
    Politics mean: “Processes involving Structural Changes in a public.” I think that’s what our prophet did in Arabia. Isnt it?

    And something else that i wonder, regarding what you said about Islam, why nowadays western countries are this much afraid of growing Islam in the west? Why they spend lots of money to advertise against Islam and Muslims?
    That’s not bcs Islam makes people “aware” of “the world” they live in?!

  19. Tia Says:

    Alloush, its a fact that Prophet (saw) established a state in Madinah where he was the leader of the state, he was referred as the ruler of Madinah by those who did not recognise his status as a Prophet and by the mere fact that people came and gave Ba’yah (oath of allegiance) to the Prophet (saw) when he took over Madinah.

    I also dispute that all wars were purely in defence, its a false to believe that, we only have to look at the very first battle of Badr which the Prophet (saw) at provoked. This is also clear from the letters he wrote to the neighboring rulers, where the last option was one of military action.

  20. Shahrzad Says:

    Xavier, I liked your comment. I really believe to Hijab and i am also Hijabi woman. Hijab helped me to stay away of dirty looks. And i am happy with it.. I have no problem with hijab. But im going to accept that the mass of society, usually are followers and should be forced. For if they dont be forced to follow religion, they follow nudity of the west..
    Sincerely in this situation, if the mandatory hijab be canceled, then quickly the society goes to nudity and i really dont accept it..
    Btw, the girl as you said is badly reconstructed. LOL .. Her face is not natural.. The Dr didnt construct well.. :D

    Tia, I think i got your points. As i said in other comments, the Islamic Government of Iran, is much busy with foreigner politics. That’s why something like producing Hijabi culture or True and intellectual Islamic culture doesnt exist here.

    I dont mean we dont have ideologists. We have many good Ideologists here. The ideologists that were the main motiveting people in Revolution. The best example is Murtaza Mutahari that his books really helped me for intellectual Islam. And other example is Shari’ati..
    Their books that discuss islam from its basic and fundametal aspects, were the reason that Hijab and generally Islam grew up quickly in Iran. They had much influence on Islamic movemnets of University students. Who were the mainstream of revolution.
    But suddenly after revolution many foreigner events, and some unknown reasons happened and the wonderful thoughts of ideologists didnt advertise anymore. Shari’ati was killed by Shah before revolution and Mutaharri also was murdered by a terrorist group.
    Now after 29 years, they again started to republish their books and advertise their thoughts. But we almost lost 29 years..

    Maybe that’s people’s fault too that they are not really concerned. Btw it is something all over the muslim world. Even a very religious girl doesnt bother herself to go and find answers. Religious people in Iran prefer to be far from the mass, for not to do sin, instead of basical religious studying to answer kind of non religious people’s questions!!

    They made their sphere and they live into it. That’s enough for them. So when i see a girl like above fotos, i really take her innocent to be who she is. For she doesnt get the religion in her family, and the society also doesnt offer her the religion as an ideology.. They dont know why one should be “Muslim”, and what is meaning of muslim being..

    Anyway, i agree also with the fact that nobody can make all muslims, as real intellectual muslims. Who easily be able to discuss about religion and also teach others..

    So it seems again mass should be forced to accept something. That’s something happens around the world. Once a knowledgeable man said me that Most people are followers.. Just alittle group use their brain..

  21. Tia Says:

    Shahrzad sis you made a good point, most people are just followers, and if they see everyone else observing Hijaab they too will dress like that. Also in my opinion, there is nothing wrong with enforcing laws because laws are there to be enforced and Islamic laws are not there to be discussed over coffee as some fanciful concept.. they have been revealed to be enforced accordingly.

    Also, you correctly described the basis of difference being various understandings of politics found amongst Muslims, whereas Islam has its own definition of politics derived from Ahadith such as one you quoted: “Whoever rises and does not concern himself with the affairs of the Muslims is not a Muslim.”

  22. Shahrzad Says:

    You know Tia, i got the idea that searching too much into religion, need to start with good foundation and from true sourses.
    Most people are not really ready for kind of searching. If they go too much into religious discussion, it makes them confused and fall them in doubt.. Stage of doubt is wonderful to search and find answer.. But not good to stay there for long term..
    I see kind of people so much nowadays..

  23. rlg2 Says:

    I agree that is is imperative for all of us who seek God to go back to the primary sources, though most either refuse to do so or make a clumsy half-hearted attempt to do so. This may be because they are really only half-intentioned or because they are hindered from doing so by forces beyond their control. I am partially at fault in this myself. Althoguh I have studied the Olkd and new testaments in both hebrew and Greek, and I read the Quran, I am able to do the latter only in the best English tranlation. Nonetheless, as a Christian, I am not afraid or ashamed to read sources that have claimes counter to my own. In fact, its what makes my faith so vital. I read and I pray, I ask God to reveal himself in the scriptures, and he does. Both in scripture and personal experience, God continues to speak to me and to reveal his intentions, desires, and passion for man. I mentioned several times in posts that I am a Christian, but I have studied Islam in class, on my own, and with Muslims, even mullahs. I sincerely want to know God in the fullness of all he has. I have prayed and asked, “God, if Islam is the true light, the true way, your way, show me that I might know and share the truth with others.” What he has shown me, however, is very different. Now, you might say that God has destined me not to know him, and not to reveal himself to me, in spite of my earnest desire to know him. On the other hand, perhaps the things he has shown me have more credibiity than most people would acknowledge. In any case, its pretty much impossible to argue these things as people believe what they are programmed to believe or what they want to believe. What I’ve learned is that God is bigger than our miniscule brains are able to comprehend, but even with that being the case, he is constantly looking for those in whom his words, his truth, and his love can be planted and grow. In II Chronicles 16:9 it says that “the eyes of the LORD run to and fro across the earth looking for those in whom he can show himself strong.” He continues to search and to reveal himself in what may seem the most unlikely places. God chooses to partner with us as the means of bringing salvation to the broken world we live in and he continues to relentlessly pursue the lost and breaks through the bonds of religion today in spite of religionists attempts to thwart him. Around the world there are many for whom religion is the all-important focus of their lives, the system, and not God. The almighty living God desires more than that. He desires a vital, living, loving relationship with those he created and has gone to extraordinary lengths to restore the relationship that was broken by our own sinfulness. I know that most of those who read this will disagree with what I have to say. but there are remarkable things happenng across the world today and more to come. God is revealing the truth about himself to those with open eyes and sincere hearts. As i said, I can not really argue this, so i rely on God himself. As it is written, its “Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit says the LORD.”

    Ron

  24. Tia Says:

    Shahrzad I tend to agree with that. I like the inquiring mind, but as someone once told me, there has to be a set methodology and people should spend more time questioning the foundations of law, if they can understand that everything else should ideally fall in place.

  25. Ron Says:

    But are the foundations of law not laid by God? If not, we have a morass of individual man-made systems of law that are subjective and based on that person or that group’s individual experience, desires, or manias. What’s good for one may not be good for all. Subjective law, as was the case with, say nazi Germany, can be deadly. On the other hand, if law stems from God as in, say, the 10 commandments (which I think we can commonly claim), there is a basis of authority that provides us with a glimpse of god’s true nature and invites us to examine ourselves in light of what has been called the “divine mirror.” In essence, the law exists to show us, as does the mirror, our faults and shortcomings. I believe, however, that the law can not change our hearts and can not renew our minds. The law can bind us from doing things and can repress our actions, but only the grace of God can change our hearts, renew our minds, restore our falleness, and ultimately, provide us with real freedom by breaking the bonds of the law. The law however is not broken to give us license for riotousness, but empowered with the knowledge of God’s grace, to do good out of love and persoal choice, not out of need and requirement. The law does have a purpose and understanding the law IS the foundation of all moral and rightous living, but the irony of the law is that the law exists to show our imperfections, lead us to God and ultimately, to make us understand grace.

    As a woman I admire once said,

    “One can give without loving, but one cannot love without giving.”

    Amy Carmichael

  26. Shahrzad Says:

    I know what you are saying Ron. But we should pay attention to the fact, that not all people bother themselves or are enough knowledgeable to find what they should do and who they should be by own. Here discussion is about one who is knowledgeable/intellectual or unintellectual..

    Most people look at me, you and other, and just copy-paste. Kind of people should be ruled and managed by laws. There is no other way if a society wants to care its social norms.
    Islam recognise social norms and respect them.
    In Islam for every issue of humankind, there is a clear law. And for modern events also, it is possible to take the Islamic laws. But for example about Hijab, traditional way of hijab is also acceptable. That’s kind of social norms..
    It happens that who is follower, with his blind following from other society or culture, makes distortion in the regularity of his society.
    Like nudity of the west, can no never be applied in Eastern countries. Not just Islamic, not non Islamic countries. That’s not culture of Eastern people. Their social norms dont accept it. So when a woman comes bare or with less clothes in the street, she should be punished.

    The same about kissing, a man and a woman is Eastern countries are not allowed to kiss each other freely in the street. There is kind of civic police that warns kind of couples. Just bcs That’s not Eastern social norms..

  27. Ron Says:

    I have to apologize here as a went beyond the specifics of the page posts on the Hijab. I was speaking more in terms of the broader sense of law and not so much about the Hijab. I agree with you on much of what you say, including nudity and national reputation. I hear similar things from American girls who are approahced by men in Europe and the the Middle East who think all American women are loos and have no morals. On the contrary, most are highly principled but saddled with the ill-repute that comes from some who are openly brazen in their views. The nudity and promiscuity portrayed in movies, magazines and even in real life, are part of the reality of “modern” culture but by no means represents the majority of Americans. I think it is interesting to follow the discussion on the Hijab because its something that speaks of a woman’s desire to choose modesty and morality. Its not something that is restricted to Islam either. My mother and many women wore headscarves while I was growing up as a sign of modesty. Even today, there are various groups of Christian women who wear bonnets or scarves for the same purpose, most noteably the Amish and Mennonites. if it seemed that I was championing freedom to be loose, promiscuous, and immoral, please forgive me. I was not. My comments were meant to illustrate what i believe to be the purpose of law in general and the law of the Hijab. That post was not really in the most appropriate place. I have to say, however, that I have been enlightened by all the comments on this site. Some I am in perfect agreement with and other, i am not. Thank you for providing this forum.

    Ron

  28. Shahrzad Says:

    Ron, I agree with you that there is modesty in religions. When Iranian Christians and Jews go to their worship places usually use kind of scarf you mentioned. Even among zoroastrians there are some law of modesty, should be done for women. And i read in historical books that Persian women used to take kind of hijab during pre-islamic era..
    I even think there is something like Hijab is mentioned in Torah and old testament. I heard that a century ago, a christian woman was not allowed to show her leg to men. For the long skirt they used to wear and kind of pants under it. Yea?

    I think the modesty was gone from the west (in general) bcs they completely removed religion from laws.

    Now every TV channel in Europ and US, advertise nudity here and there.
    There are kind of channels in the East too. I think kind of culture not only didnt make women free, but also made them slaves to be used as instruments for lust to satisfy desires of some men.

    As Xavier said, less women nowadays are judged for their minds. They’re judged for their external beauties and body..
    And there are less knowledgeable women out there nowadays.. That’s really sad.. :(

  29. Hijab Says:

    As many of you have mentioned that the reason as to why they do not care is because they have been forced to wear hijab in the first place.

  30. youngMuslimah Says:

    when you force someone to do something w/o actually explaining the hikmah behind it, they will rebel. hijab is so beautiful subhanAllah. it’s sad many girls in our part of the world are making a mockery of it. but maybe its not b/c of the rules alone..i mean even here in the UAE women wear the innovated hijab..and we dont have hijab rules..it sucks..may Allah ta’ala give us tawfeeq to wear hijab in the right manner, Ameen.

  31. Shahrzad Says:

    Hijab, Thank you hijab for you comment. :)

    YM, well said.. I also read in Unique blog that kind of hijab is growing up in Egypt too. And there is no restriction there. Same Dubai..
    I think that’s more for lack of an stable religious culture in muslims world, that defeat the western so called luxurious culture, In real culture of nudity that is based of pealsure in this world. And always doing sin is pleasurable.. ;)

  32. sonia Says:

    certainly you’ve hit the nail on the head, if you force people to try and do something they always want to do the opposite! people should be free to make their own choices without being pushed one way or the other.

  33. Ron Says:

    Is there a website or two dedicated to ‘fashion” in the Islamaic world; what women wear and why? I’m asking for my daughter who is interested in clothing design but knows practically nothing of fashion outside of Paris and New York.

    Thanks for any tips you can provide

    Ron

  34. mehr Says:

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  35. Shahrzad Says:

    Ron, I will search and find some islamic fashion sites soon for your daughter. I saw some sites that even have Iranian islamic fashion. That will be also interesting for your daughter. Say my warm hi to her :)

  36. Gecoco Says:

    Why is it that a woman nudity or choice always become a debate. Through years, we’ve learnt that a choice is not always a choice. When those in Iran were asked to remove their scarves,Chador, Abaya, and Niqab… Everybody when forced by the government to do certain things go against them, because they do not want to comply with the goverment, but it is being looked bad because those people who did not want to comply are women. What makes people believe that those women wanted to stay like that? That was only a system of opposition. I do not dress myself in way that will make myself feel uncomfortable, but I put on clothes that I feel comfortable in. Being born Iranian doe not necesarily make you a Muslim. Proud to be an Iranian, hell yes, but Proud to be Muslim, I have to think of that because everybody has to have the right to practice whatever they want. I have to live with this everyday. Being in AMERICA does not change the way I think at all. I have been in the U.S for three years and I do always remeber where I am from and what I am. I am planning on instilling this to my younger siblings and who knows? God willing, to my children as well. I would so much love to talk more about this, but have to get back to my homework. peace

  37. sadaf Says:

    afarin bacheha

  38. lisa Says:

    gecoco
    its too bad that your not proud to be a Muslim. thats your problem but it would be better if you stop commenting impolitely about Islam.

  39. Shahrzad Says:

    Gecoco,
    Usually that’s women’s hijab which become debate.I think women nudity is not a debate at all in our world! Just turn on the TV, you can get what i mean. There is difference between a choice that make you confortable but taking others’ comfort.
    You as a woman says that you have limitation to wear clothes. Of course you dont show part of your body for you’re not comfortable. A hijabi muslim woman feels same about rest of her body. You never wish to live in a society that all people are naked around you. For you DONT feel comfortable! True?!
    As long as being born as a muslim doesnt make you muslim when you dont practice, being born as an Iranian doesnt make you particularely Iranian.
    Islam and Irani being are not things that you can make them separated from each other. Iranians dont forget Quran on 7Sin Table. Big part of the culture you are proud of it, has an strong and deep root in Islamic culture. From buildings to paintings, from poetry to clothes..

  40. Laila Says:

    Hi people
    i just wanted to say that not every Muslim girl wears a hijab and if they don’t it does not mean that they should be proud of it or talk bad of it.. like they dont really have a right to say anything about it when they dont quite do the right thing.. if your a true muslim you would wear it because thats our identity to show that we are proud of our religion and people that dont wear it just shouldnt say anything about it. some people say that , ” o yeah, hijabis arent any better than non hijabis because they still wear make-up and all to attract ppl” . but dont u think its better doing one thing that shows that u care. for ppl that think this way.. they shud think that wearing make-up and trying to attract ppl plus not wearing a hijab is a even bigger sin because your not doing any of the good things. nobody said that u cant look after yourself and care about how you look while you wear a hijab. it shows that you care about Islam just by looking at the hijab.

  41. ProudToBEaMuslimGirl Says:

    I loved reading this! Sis, here are some more verses from the Qur’an informing us about how there is no compulsion in religion:)
    The last 2 verses are more relevant to your article:)
    2:256 There is no compulsion in religion, for the right way is clearly from the wrong way. Whoever therefore rejects the forces of evil and believes in God, he has taken hold of a support most unfailing, which shall never give way, for God is All Hearing and Knowing.

    16:82 But if they turn away from you, (O Prophet remember that) your only duty is a clear delivery of the Message (entrusted to you).

    4:79, 80 (Say to everyone of them,) ‘Whatever good betides you is from God and whatever evil betides you is from your own self and that We have (O Prophet) sent you to mankind only as a messenger and all sufficing is God as witness. Whoso obeys the Messenger, he indeed obeys God. And for those who turn away, We have not sent you as a keeper.”
    4:79, 80 (Say to everyone of them,) ‘Whatever good betides you is from God and whatever evil betides you is from your own self and that We have (O Prophet) sent you to mankind only as a messenger and all sufficing is God as witness. Whoso obeys the Messenger, he indeed obeys God. And for those who turn away, We have not sent you as a keeper.”

    11:28 (Noah to his people) He (Noah) said “O my people! think over it! If 1 act upon a clear direction from my Lord who has bestowed on me from Himself the Merciful talent of seeing the right way, a way which you cannot see for yourself, does it follow that we can force you to take the right path when you definitely decline to take it?°

    17:53, 54 And tell my servants that they should speak in a most kindly manner (unto those who do not share their beliefs). Verily, Satan is always ready to stir up discord between men; for verily; Satan is mans foe …. Hence, We have not sent you (Unto men O Prophet) with power to determine their Faith.

    21:107 to 109 (O Prophet?) ‘We have not sent you except to be a mercy to all mankind:” Declare, “Verily, what is revealed to me is this, your God is the only One God, so is it not up to you to bow down to Him?’ But if they turn away then say, “I have delivered the Truth in a manner clear to one and all, and I know not whether the promised hour (of Judgment) is near or far.”

    22:67 To every people have We appointed ceremonial rites (of prayer) which they observe; therefore, let them not wrangle over this matter with you, but bid them to turn to your Lord (since that is the main objective of religion). You indeed are rightly guided. But if they still dispute you in this matter, (then say,) `God best knows (the value of) what you do.”

    88:21, 22; also see 24:54 And so, (O Prophet!) exhort them your task is only to exhort; you cannot compel them to believe.

  42. Joubin Says:

    Salaam Aloush,

    You are entirely mistaken regarding the nature of the Commandment to ‘Modesty’ and ‘appropriate covering’ of the woman by Al-Aziz Al-Hakeem.

    The Commandments to both Men and Women regarding this matter — appropriate *social* attire — are, naturally, social in nature and the context of application is the (semi) public spaces of social interaction.

    /& Salaam

  43. amir Says:

    my belief is PERSIAN culture is NOT arab culture or MUSLIM culture. Persians are PERSIANS. We differ from the arabs and the muslims, we are persians first, zoroastrian first! [...]

    Why dont we PERSIANS understand this? Lets live a FREE and PERSIAN lifestyle! GOOD THOUGHTS, GOOD WORDS, GOOD DEEDS!

    As for the Hijab, well unfortunately Islam will have some sort of influence in Iran for a while, hopefully not for long. So one cannot force anyone to remove or to wear that crap that hides a beautiful Iranian girl!

    And i also do believe in modesty, living in Australia i see the immodesty and dont like it one bit, but at the same time a covered woman i dislike even more!

    Islam and Arab culture is backward and it is very unfortunate that this is having that influence it is in Iran. But i have hope and optimism that Iran is a sleeping giant that will soon awake!

    Long live CYRUS THE GREAT! The one TRUE leader!

    …………….
    Bcs of unrespectful words, edited by Shahrzad!

  44. Shahrzad Says:

    amir, Regarding Your comment, you’re very ignorant about Iranian or “Persian” History.
    There are many proofs in persian antique paintings, statues and inscriptions of before Islam, that hijab was a common act by Persian Zoroastrian women before Islam. So Hijab in Iran, at first is “Iranian/Persian”, then “Islamic”.

    You feel bad bcs of immodesty and you feel bad bcs of hijab!. What does make you feel good in this world then?

    How Islam is more backward when it is for 1400 years ago. But Zoroastrian religion that you’re talking about is for “2500″ years ago?! Didn’t you notice this point?!! ;)

    “Long live CYRUS THE GREAT! The one TRUE leader!”

    Long live for a dead king??!!. Hehe..

    Sleep well!

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  46. orlando7truth Says:

    I like this Iranian hijab dressing ;)

  47. Hijab Pins Says:

    Very interesting posts and comments

  48. Yanina Says:

    It makes me smile to see these kinds of pictures, where Iranian women have got to the point of being much more “beautified” with their so called hijabs than they would have been if there was no rule for hijab at all! Of course, if something is forced, it will be rejected. I wonder if the same thing would be happening now if at the time of the revolution there were no mandatory hijab. Perhaps the young generation would not care so much about appreance and how to look most appealing and would instead focus on the good things of their religion. Frankly, I feel for them. They have been deprived of normal acts of freedom and robben of their religion at the cost of “looking Islamic.” It is all a bit hypocritical as well.

  49. moneysworthless Says:

    some very good points :)

    Modesty is important, but it shouldn’t be forced…

  50. jumbo Says:

    its for sharzad and Aussie Amir, well persian culture is great indeed and shahrzad i am shocked at your relegious fanatisam what islam has done to Iran , the first thing the Arabs Lizard eaters did was to burn the well stuffed libraries of the world of those times and saying The Holy book is more then enough for Persians, very strange Islam was foisted with sword and persians were forced to pay JEZIA , if any country that has benenefited from persian culture is India , Indians absorbed the finer parts and covering of head and other parts of body is common and strictly adressed among Hindus too ,Zorastarians were welcome here 1400 years ago and they indeed made an impact in India many examples which common Iranian is not aware the Father of Indian nuclear programme was An Zorastarian Dr.HOMI JEHANGIR BHABHA and TATA family which owns luxury brands of LANDROVER AND JAGUAR and Orient hotel group and one of the biggest industrialists and Many Iranians who have kept religion at bay and first looked to evolve themselves as human beings rather than their respective religion they are true representators of true Iranian culture. Hijab is something which cannot change the thoughts of a man towards women rather his upbringing , his virtues and his culture plays a major role curiosity is something which is very dangerous . Iran was supposed to be the elitest and most forward nation inspite of Islam but , the generation seems to be confused betwen Islam and persian culture which thrived and survived inspite if Islam.The problem has been the Arabs one of the most distrusted people on earth , even Mughal Kings of India never trusted them rather were very close to the persian kings . Times change world changes no one can stop anything in this world and forced modesty is not humane modesty by itself is the most beautifull thing .

  51. Shahrzad Says:

    jumbo, Good at least you comfirmed that Hijab is something “Iranian” at first place. I saw some veiled Iranian women who have the most severe hijab in the muslim world. The chador(kind of hijab in Iran like Sari in India) itself is something Irani at first place and has examples in the statues and painting of the past, completely different from Abayah that Arab women use.
    But i dont agree with part of your words. You’re very judgmental in your way of thinking. Also i dont know from which part of my words you “judge” me as a religious fanatic!!

  52. jumbo Says:

    dear shahrzad,
    one thing i didnt admire is your making fun of Great Darius , well once they were the Persians who took persian empire to its heights entire europe used to pay obscience to him and respect him , the way everything was codified methodically during his kingdom was literally picked up by the westerners .
    well i would take my words back if you did find them offending regarding you being fanatic.
    elegance is one thing which a woman neither can achieve by covering too much nor by displaying too much , circle of life never stops , one thing which is mandatory today can be directory tommorow , one incident can change the course of history for any nation , I admire the great Persian culture but frankly speaking persian people i have been in contact are not what the west propogates .Indeed they are genetically far far superior than Arabs………. its only mind it only the discovery of oil that made them or they still would have been living in tents and fighting with their swords.

    in almost all the countries which are very old civilisations covering of women has been there maybe in any sort.

  53. resolute Says:

    hello. Where do you live Shahrzaad?
    I didnt read the whole text, and I dont know what do you mean from writing this things. But I can say Iran is still the best. we can’t judge about all iranian people from some examples.

  54. Shahrzad Says:

    Resolute, I really advice you to read whole text and comments always. So you will get what people mean from writing these things ;)

  55. Shahrzad Says:

    jumbo, what i meant was not disrespecting Cyrus or anybody else. The concept is hilarious for me!! When Iranians are living in the past instead of living in today. Past with all fame and glamor of its kings is not real anymore. They just provide me my nationality, my culture and my beliefs. but I am human of today..

  56. jumbo Says:

    well if english would have been kept in texts from the word go in school curriculam in Iran i think Iran would have been a powerhouse by now far far ahead of many nations , say no.1 in middle east ,anyway ur right Iranians are living in the past they should come out of age now

  57. ilyani Says:

    Hi,
    I have been to Iran in 1999 and fell in love with the country. Though some oppose forcing people to wear hijab, I still think it’s the best to keep that way. I even wish my country has a rule like yours too, at least I don’t want to see people go around half naked on the street.

    I have put your link to my Blogroll :) Keep it up!

  58. Shahrzad Says:

    Tina, I didnt write this article that people come and insult. I write in my blog to raise discussions in a healthy atmosphere.. I had to remove your comment.

  59. Arianna Says:

    Shahrzad,
    As you said you are a hijabi girl even outside of Iran, I really dont undrestand, if you cover your hair it means what? it means men should not see your hair or if they do they will get immodest! I believe its ok if we wear something which is appropriate for the soceity, in a country when men can see female’s hair freely, your hair doesnt really count! you know if I cover my finger, I think it excites men to see what is under it!

  60. Anonymous Says:

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  61. forough Says:

    stop the hate Iran is a place with thousands of years of history it is paradise in every way every one whants to be us and if they cant they hate ( ALLAH BLESS IRAN )

  62. apostatepakistanigirl Says:

    The hijab is a symbol of patriarchy and male oppression. You wear it either as a silly fashion accessory, through community pressure, or through fear of being raped, spat at or arrested by the PASDARAN and taken to Evin Prison. It is very sad that an Iranian woman should think of Islam as a ‘beautiful’ religion. What’s beautiful about my former faith? I can’t think of anything and I was a very conservative Muslim up until I became mutrhad. The fact that most people here are bored, lonely, sex starved men proves my point. I feel really sorry for Muslims, because the men are sexual perverts mostly, I think, like Muslim women, they are also VICTIMS of Al Islam. Guys, you are so desperate for sex, don’t you realize that while you are forced to waste your time searching every corner of the internet, degrading yourselves, humiliating yourselves-like dogs, your leaders are rich and have the one thing you don’t have- WOMEN!! I think this blog is somehow very pathetic, sweet, but pathetic, and beneath its pretty pages lie Muslim cockroaches crazy for sex. I hope you leave Islam, like me, and STOP this madness which is driving you all insane.

  63. apostatepakistanigirl Says:

    Shahrzad, I am not criticizing you by the way, please, let me make that clear. I admire the work you have done here, i just think Islam is not the answer, sorry, but that’s my position, and I invite you to reconsider the role of women in Islam, as I have done. Are you really free? Even in the west, are we free as women? I would say no on both accounts. I think you ought to look at radical femimist literature, why don’t you? If you don’t change, you will just become hypocrites and a joke among nations, people who like schizophrenics talk about sex and allah, allah and sex, sex and allah, allah and sex- which is what YOU do do on these kind of blog sites! You are very conflicted people actually and Islam is only going to make life worse, it is the source of your pain and terrible sexual frustration, Iranian people, and yet, like heroin addicts, you crave the posion which is killing you. I left Islam- so can YOU.
    Iran WAS a great country, under Darius, Xerxes, Cambyses, now it is a nation of sex starved teenagers obsessed with religion. It is very very sad.

  64. Shahrzad Says:

    apostatepakistanigirl, Unfortunately your words seem more pathenic for me. I feel you’re very confused in your personal life and the patriarch community you’ve lived in, and it forces you to come here, leave impolite comments and insult some people you even dont know them.
    From one extrimism to another, there is just a very little thin line. And your statement and “position” just proved it for me!

    Freedom is matter of choice. When a person wants to be free, nobody can stop him/her. I doubt if you even can define “freedom”. And after writing so much nonsense, you still didnt define it.

    You even didnt live in Iran. So you can not judge me and my lifestyle as an Iranian woman.

  65. Shameema Says:

    I must say that I have not read all the comments so perhaps it has already been touched upon. I think the notion of blaming Governments is abit flawed. I understand human nature, where when people are forced to do something then they rebel but (referring to achelios first comment) blaming the government for your actions and behavior is pushing that limit. Everyone has a mind and a brain and a moral standard for the way they lead their life. I think that government or no government, one can maintain that. Sometimes we all need something to blame for our own weaknesses.

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  67. Jersey Says:

    I think it is stupid when Turkey tries to prevent its citizens from wearing traditional Turkish garb so it can try to appeal to other European states to join the EU.

    I think it should be each woman for herself. If she wants to wear hijab, let her wear hijab, whether because she believes it to be mandated by God, or because of cultural preference, or whatever. Yet I do not think a woman who is against hijab should attack the former for being too traditional or “non-feminist”. I am sick of rich white American feminists jabbing at Muslimahs because they believe in modesty rather than sexuality.

    I wear jeans, sweats, t shirts, and other clothes that may sometimes expose my arms and lower legs, but you won’t ever catch me dead in anything that reveals my torso, my chest, or anything above my knees. Heck, if I could, I’d rather wear those new Muslimah-inspired swimsuits to the local swimming pool than either bikinis, tankinis, or even traditional one-pieces. Just, not the hair piece that comes along with it — ponytails are my preference. :)

  68. Westerner Says:

    I want to learn more about the Middle Eastern Culture. I am so torn with everything I read, some say Islam is wonderful and other dispise it. Why such a difference? I am sorry if I appear to be ignorant to your history and culture. I want to know more about it. Do you have guidance for me, where to find out more? Thank you.

  69. Westerner Says:

    I am sorry I meant despise.

  70. sohail Says:

    irani low is good for hijab

  71. Anonymous Says:

    خدایا ما را از شر شیاطین جن و انس حفظ فرما
    آمین یا رب العالمین

  72. Marjan Says:

    I personally think that modesty is important and is valued. However, SOME Iranian women don’t cover themself properly as regard to the law which clearly shows their rebellious side to it. So for that reason I don’t think wearing a hejab should be compulsary.. Anyone else agree?
    =)

  73. multiculturalwannabe Says:

    I can not agree more about this post about the hijab thing…I just posted my opinions about the hijab on another post you wrote, but I should have posted it here…I agree with this one; hijab should be a voluntary choice, and I’m so tired of people who is totally against it on all women, or totally pro-hijab for all women….

    Hanna Bard, Sweden, 20 years old

  74. KT Says:

    Its an stupid rule in Iran thats they are forcing for Hijaab and for everythings.
    Publics have no RIGHTS at all and i am sorry for all Iranians.

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  77. baqer Says:

    kt just shut up
    Shahrzad is also right but to some extent
    irani laeders are great
    nobody can rule like that.
    and u u u Shahrzad u have to take lesson from bibi fatima a.s.
    just think on my point

  78. azizam delam Says:

    Men and women are different from each other. Men want Lots and a variety, women want one and only one. Men have taken control of most of the world because of their superior muscle power and inferior emotional understanding. Women need to protect themselves from the force and domination of men, which will,if they get their way, turn every woman into a prostitute, which is really what they already think we are and which they want women to be. When I say that I mean they ant every woman to be readily available for sex whenever they want it. They want sex without responsibility for the consequences, economimcal, emotional or physical. Women have to protect themselves from the consequences, such as children and poverty and ill health. Men also want women to be promiscuous just like they are. So they try to teach women to think about sex as men do. They are the ones who teach us to display our merchandise and to judge ourselves by the degree to which we can arouse men with our behavior and physical attributes. They teach us to hate ourselves if we do no arouse them readily.
    But they are also jealous and possessive at the same time and don’t like to share. They want all women but they believe all women should want only themselves. When men learn to communicate as human beings with minds and hearts, then their anatomy will not be so important and sex will not have to dominate all their relationships.

  79. Keyvan Says:

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  80. nilofar Says:

    i really love the iranian fashion.can u plz send me some more photoes of iranian fashion(girls)

    ageh befrestid kheily mamnoon misham

  81. DANIAL Says:

    hi that is not bad essay
    but our society should be open especialy in hijab all girls should their cover by their own descion why should not the people of the world know iranian girls without hijab .it is intresteing that iranian hijab irritate men more than the other countries girls s hijab.u know why?
    because they do not have khomeini,ayatolah,sheykh,and islamic mediavel(islamic vosta) .what a unlucky us that islam is chanded to strong tooooool to misuse especialy defraud iranian by goverment.

  82. DANIAL Says:

    another point that we fogot that girls and boys need sex .
    but to show this young especialy girls here want to show their desier on the one hand,it is kind of reaction but our parents the society and the shet goverment do not want know the fact our society is toooooooooo different from 30 years ago we need fashion new style we rigth to live not life doing us

  83. Maryam Says:

    Hey everyone,
    Shahrzad Jan, ey val.
    I cannot say how much I appreciate reading something about hijab from a woman who has experienced it and is not just making things up. I agree with everything you said, especially the part about it being the government’s fault; this is what I have been trying to tell people for YEARS. Now all I have to do is give them the link to your site ;).
    I am a Persian Muslim who was born in Canada, and unfortunately I have never been to Iran. I would love to visit there someday, but for the time being, I am afraid that it may have some negative influence on my religious beliefs and my beliefs regarding hijab.
    Again, thank you so, so much for writing this, and khoda bede barekat!
    -Maryam

  84. milad Says:

    سلام .ببین ما قبل از ااینکه اسلام وارد ابران بشه زن های ایرانی از هر قوم ایت ای که بودن حجاب داشتن پس حجاب زن ایرانی مال این 30 سال اخیر نیست که بگیم به ضرب وضور حجاب دارن.

  85. His Sweetheart Says:

    I totally agree with you!! I was there the passed two weeks and just came back last night. The hijab is really disappearing and now we could easily count those who wear the Islami veil!! All Iranians have highlighted hair nowadays with uncountable hair dos and the tightest clothes ever!!

    I blame the leadership too for such a religious country is becoming a chewing gum!! I really wish that things will become better soon with firm decisions!!

  86. Emre Sevilen Says:

    Salaam Shahrzad khanoom, khubi ? No I am not Persian hehe. Its a good article by you and something I am not sure what you meant.
    You said -
    1) “Iranians are still emotionally religious.”
    “Remember again, that Iranians are emotionally religious.”

    2) “I wear modest so if somebody judge me with kind of labels, I will never forgive Iranian leaders.”

    Could you please explain a bit ?

  87. aryan Says:

    hi
    dear shahrzad:
    I wish I found this site sooner
    every day I will see this site
    special thanks

    aryan saran

  88. A Happy Hijabi Says:

    Oh i totally agree with this. this iranian hijab is not hijab at all. they are really confused if they think this is supposed to guard their treasures and modesty.

  89. Batoul Mousavi Says:

    salam
    I wear hijab & that`s great! :D
    This hijab (in pictures) is not the really hijab :S
    May Allah save the hijab in Iran :) :3
    Thank u Shahrzad … <3

  90. Tauqeer Says:

    Completely agreed.

  91. marie Says:

    salaam and hello to all…..
    first of all, even though im a vailed muslim, i disagree with Iran’s enforcing the hijab. it lessens the hijab’s value when people who have no respect for it to begin with are forced to wear it! i think that if god said that theres no cumpulsion in religion, then people should give themselves the right to enforce religious views on others.

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