Do you remember that there were some legal problems to marry Iranian girls? It’s some months that new laws have stated in Iran and have been issued in Iranian embassies too.
In the matter that all that previous long process will be done just by girl’s request and if she doesnt want it, there is no need to most of those documents! The only condition is that for muslim woman, man need to convert to Islam too. Farsi Source
So based on the laws, in Iran, marriage between an Iranian woman and a non-iranian man is NOT a contract between man and government anymore. Now it’s just a contract between woman and man who decide to marry.. If not all, at least to some extent..
October 27, 2008 at 3:26 pm
That’s cool! Will it really encourage more Iranian women marrying outside Iran?
October 27, 2008 at 3:28 pm
misspecs, Oh they’ve been already marrying foreigners. Esp westerners.
I am also married to a non-iranian (westerner)..
October 27, 2008 at 3:56 pm
Interesting! So I suppose this’ll speed things up in terms of visa’s etc for the 2 individuals?
October 27, 2008 at 6:59 pm
Sumera, In fact there is no problem for taking Iran Visa nowadays. Even without marrying iranian wife, most foreigners from different countries can take iranian visa on arrival in the Imam Airport of Iran.
Now in this case, Iranian laws have been changed for the better.
The major problem is the country of husband, which makes it difficult for Iranian wife to take visa from her husband’s country, due to sanctions..
October 27, 2008 at 7:27 pm
This is good news and I guess an Iranian man could marry a westerner with half the problems?
The only thing left is that the man now has to be muslim.
October 27, 2008 at 7:32 pm
Meba, There’s been no problem actually for an Iranian man marrying a non-Iranian woman.
For Iranian muslim girl, the guy has to convert to Islam. But for an Iranian non-muslim girl, there’s been no need to convert. They do it based on their religious laws.
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October 27, 2008 at 9:05 pm
Alhamdulliah!
October 27, 2008 at 10:25 pm
Ok.
Does the government restrict Iranian muslim woman marrying non-muslims in general?
October 27, 2008 at 10:31 pm
Achelois,
Karim, If they want to marry based on Iranian laws, for marrying Muslim girl, the non-muslim guy has to convert to Islam in the way that he gives a certificate that he has converted to Islam.
But if they marry based on nationality of the guy, they marry based on the laws of whatever country he is from. But the marriage is not submited in woman’s Iranian ID card.
Actually it’s an islamic law. Same goes for marrying a jew woman, the guy has to convert to judaism based on their religion.
October 27, 2008 at 10:52 pm
Can one convert to judaism?
October 27, 2008 at 10:54 pm
Tauqeer, Muslims are not allowed to convert to any religion. I meant to comparing religious laws between two religions.
October 28, 2008 at 4:20 am
Wow, that’s great! More power to women all over the world to marry whoever their heart is drawn to! Love Rules!
October 28, 2008 at 5:22 pm
Barbara, True.. Love rules.. How beautiful..
October 29, 2008 at 1:11 am
cool I can hear singing going off !
January 6, 2009 at 9:54 pm
Hi Shahrzad, I plan on marrying my Iranian sweetheart here in South Africa in one weeks time. I’ve been working previously in Iran for ten months. I had a really hard time trying to get married there. I’m glad to hear that the laws concerning marriage has changed-too late for me thou, ha ha ha! I’m just concerned about the section in her ID book that refers to the husbands name, as we plan on going back to Iran in future to visit. I just hope that the officials recognise us as married, as I will convert to Islam.
January 21, 2009 at 2:48 pm
I am married to an iranian girl for more than 2 yrs….if i convert to islam now will the iran govt accept the registration?
January 24, 2009 at 1:50 pm
Assalamualaikum i am from indian occupied kashmir and i hv decided to marry a bosnian girl . can we get married in iran if we come on visit visa ? can we have the rejistered marriage certificate in tehran or any other city ? wat is the procedure for the tourists marrying in iran
January 24, 2009 at 2:09 pm
Smiley Amal
Marvin, yes, they’ll recognise it..
aakash, Yes they’ll..
Marrying foreigner, I dont think so. It’s so diffcult for 2 non-iranians to marry in Iran.
The best way for you and your fiance is going to Turkey. In Turkey you can easily marry your sweetheart bcs there is laws in Turkey that tourists can easily marry there within a week.
January 31, 2009 at 1:33 pm
Hi shahrzad,
an iranian girl married to a forieghner non-muslim …will she have any problem in getting her passport renewed from the consulate…if her husband is still a non-muslim?
February 3, 2009 at 8:59 pm
Hi Shahrzad,
i tried my best to marry with an iranian girl friend ,she is already widow .First time i visited there .her parents refused me cos they dont trusted on foreigner but they had given me the option at that time to stay in iran .i refused to stay cos of my carrier n tried my best to forget her.
As the days passed i cant forget her ,n after six months i contacted her .but she has forgotten me and cleanly refused to accept that she is loving me.It takes me six months further to creat love in her heart for me n also assured her i am open to stay permanently there .
Unfortunately her parents n others did not support her .But ultimately she agreed to marry with me n every time she was refused.
As time goes on ,i got the heart stroke when she did not attended my phone three four days n after dat she felt love for me again ,when one of my friend informed her abt my hospitalisation..
Then after few days again our love runs in the air n when i proposed her for marriage n to leave everything for her then she next day again informed me via mail she dont feel love for me..i know she told that due to parental n society stress…..
Then finally i decided i will once again visit there n if in front of my face she felt no love n refuse for marriage then i will go away for forever from her love..n informed her about the same ..She agreed for it n also requested me after that i shld not punish myself cos of her love as she is very soft hearted girl…
I took the emergency leav in my company n for that i also make here a big dramma..n also booked the airticket for iran ..just to listen her No there…
you call it my luck or bad luck she felt my love before my arrival n also is now ready to marry with me but the hindrence by govt side..
I saw your website ,where you mentioned that on girls request foriegner can marry ….n today she went to ministary of foriegn affairs in iran n according to them there is no such law in which without such documentation ( unmarried proof ,n Non criminal record of foriegn husband) is required .which at the present moment i can t produce..
I am sure initially you are feeling bored n confused that why i told you the whole story ,cus without listening whole story you cant how i reached to fly iran without documentary proof.
NOw finally i think i cant get leave atleast till one year n i am using this leave to go for umrah n meanwhile if you can help me .then contact at this email :Shipil1@yahoo.co.in ..
it is my girl friends email n m sure you as iranian can guide her better cos now she is really intrested in marrying with me..but i feel too much tired …allah hafiz inshallah allah fullfill your all desires wether you contact her or not.
When i
February 3, 2009 at 9:16 pm
Sohail, Tell her to check this link which is ministry of foreign affairs link:
http://www.mfa.gov.ir/cms/cms/Tehran/fa/ConsularAffairs/consuli/Sejelat/F/c.html
Here there are all requirements for marrying a non-Iranian guy.. She will notice that most of them are with the request of woman.
Just a woman who has been unmarried before, needs the permission of Wali or parents.. But since she is a widowed, she does not need any permission. It’s not what i say. It’s what Iranian law says.
February 5, 2009 at 7:34 pm
Thank dear for your help
But already i searched this link n sent to my girl friend .instructed her show this law to ministry of affairs ..
As i cant read farsi but according to my girl fried it also says that i need unmarried proof ,police clearance certificate .etc etc n ministry of iran affairs has informed her that when i produce these documents then after two months i get the permision of nikah..It is really a mindblowing law that for permision of nikah requires two months ..
But still i kept the courage to arrange those documents from here in uae from indian embassy .n what response i got for getting these documents please read it is intresting
For unmarried proof. i filled the sworn affidavit that m not married etc etc with my passport details ./then went before counsalte for attestation but as in my passport i dont ve beared .n they informed me either come in clean shave or change the picture of passport ….i went to passport section for changing picture of pasport their they informed me ,u get new passport n it takes approximately three months n better to go kashmir n get new passport there.
Non clearance certificate : they told me it also takes three months if u apply here n besides u need to get registration frm police …
Neither i cutted beared nor but i will go again to iran mere trust on which you have posted ..i dont knw is there ne law or not bt i think that some thing will happen
February 5, 2009 at 8:10 pm
I translate that part for you here, that part which has to be done, just if your girl friend ask for it:
اصل گواهی تجرد زوج صادره از سوی مراجع رسمی (درصورت درخواست زوجه)
The letter that shows you’re single ( just by girl’s request)
- اصل گواهی عدم سوء پيشينه زوج (درصورت درخواست زوجه)
Interpol letter to show that the man didnt have any misdeed or jail in his background ( just by girl’s request)
- اصل گواهی اشتغال به کار و داشتن استطاعت مالی زوج (درصورت درخواست زوجه)
The letter that shows he’s able to provide for her financially and he has a job (just by girl’s request)
- تعهد زوج مبنی بر پرداخت نفقه و بليط مراجعت زوجه و فرزندانش به ايران (درصورت درخواست زوجه)
commitment to pay her and her future children the Nafaghah and the ticket for visiting iran eventually (just by girl’s request )
اصل اجازه نامه رسمی ولی زوجه (در صورتی که ازدواج اول باشد)
Permission of Wali (if its her first marriage)
since she is widow, she does not need that too
February 6, 2009 at 1:21 pm
Hi Shahrzad
I m a hindu married to an iranian girl 3 years back in India now I have converted to islam & we want to do nikah,we have already spoken to a Qazi to do nikah but he has questioned & threatened my wife for marrying a non-muslim 3 years back but I have heard as per Iranian goverment even after few years of marriage If we want to do nikah it is possible ? please guid me what should we do?
February 7, 2009 at 11:24 am
Salam,
I am 18 and will be turning 19 soon. I have been living in America since the age of 9. When I was 14 I met Michael who has been my best friend and boyfriend for the past 4 and a half years. I met him where i attended church. We are both Christian. With this new law the Iranian Gov’t would not honor our marriage is that correct. I mean 98% of my family lives in Iran. What would happen in my situation?
March 19, 2009 at 10:15 am
What is use of this website when we dont get any answer
April 30, 2009 at 4:34 am
Hi Ravi,
Can you please tell me how did you manage to marry an Irani girl while you were Hindu? Because according to muslim law it does not allow that girl to marry non muslim guy.
May 14, 2009 at 1:07 am
Hi Shahrzad
I am Nauman, a Sunni Muslim from Pakistan. I have decided to marry my colleague in Iran and our families have agreed also. I would like your response on the following:
- Is it accepted in Iran if the Shia girl marry a Sunni guy?
- We are preparing all documents as required by Irani Ministry, however can you confirm I can marry her while I am on a visit visa in Iran?
May 14, 2009 at 10:08 am
Nauman, There is no legal ban on marriage between Sunni and Shia. I have many friends who had intersect marriage. In some cities of Iran, Sunnis and Shi’as are so mixed up together and marriage just happens normally.
Yes you can do it through a visit visa, i hope just the bureaucrasy doesnt make you tired.
May 15, 2009 at 1:59 pm
Thank you for your reply and clarification on visit visa / intersect marriages. I believe you have absolute information InshAllah.
It is important for us to have this registration as I am living in the Middle East and can only sponsor her when she has my name in her birth certificate / ID etc.
We are both preparing documents as listed on the website of Ministry of Foreign Affairs Iran and as soon everything is ready I will be visiting Iran for submission of these documents and an interview with the authorities.
Another clarification; do we have Nekah in Iran before we submit all documents for registration or do we have it after registration / approval?
May 15, 2009 at 3:59 pm
Nauman, In Iran Civil marriage and Nikah are all together. So You will have permission for Nikah, once you finished the legal process and papers.
For further information, i’ll advice you to check with Iranian Embassy in India before coming to Iran. They will tell you the fastest and easiest way and you do not waste much time in Iran that way.
May 15, 2009 at 5:12 pm
Hi Shahrzad
I am from Pakistan and working & living between Dubai / Saudi Arabia for last three years.
We have both checked documents lists required from Irani government (Ministry of Foreign Affairs) and also my fiancee contacted the Government office in Tehran who gave her a list of documents. We have matched both lists and they are same.
I am now preparing documents on my side and she is preparing her documents. The documents then have to be submitted to Irani government in person by myself and my fiancee.
Then they will call me for an interview in 2 weeks (I have to stay in Iran during this time) and after that will take another 2 months to register / approve everything. I think the total process will take about 4-6 months, start to finish and we both have to wait.
I have contacted Iranian embassy in Pakistan and they asked me to contact Irani Foreign ministry and follow their process (that we are doing now).
If you have any other suggestions or know of any usual problems (rejection reasons) then please let me know.
Thank you
December 30, 2009 at 9:50 am
I (west-european) am happily married to my iranian wife since 9 years. it was not easy to get married at that time, perhaps it is easier now. i never regretted it, she is a perfect wife and we love each other very much and i would do all for her and we live most of the year in teheran with her great family and our 3 childs. I wish you the luck i had!
February 5, 2010 at 10:01 pm
salam Shahrzad
iam from pakistan,actually i had a plan to my girl frind, she is in irann i also read all ur comments with u did with sohail regards to the documentaions issues,but i wana liek to discuss u tht can my future wife pass her nationality to me??i means can i get iranian nationality or if they didnt give me an iranian nationality just bcoz of my wife then do i have anyother way tht i can live with her over there?? can i have any permit to live in iran??bcoz she is not agree to live with me in pakistan, so plz advice me ur words r really important for me. Khuda Hafiz
February 6, 2010 at 10:01 am
Faraz Jaffry, No one can get an iranian nationality and passport, but after you marry inside iran and go through the marriage legal process, you can request for permanent residency permit via your wife. After getting a permanent residency, you will be allowed to live, work and study in Iran.
This permanent residency is restricted for Afghans since their population is more than the others.
March 5, 2010 at 6:12 am
hello Shahrzad
I am an iranian girl and been in Uk for 8 years and i want to marry my british Bf who is a christian. if we want to legalize our marriage in iran, he needs to convert to become a muslim to get the certificate. what exactely he should do to become a muslim? will he need to do circumcision? that what he doesn’t really want to do. please tell me about process for a man to becom a muslim . thank you so much
March 22, 2010 at 5:02 am
Hello Shahrzad
I am a Non-Muslim and I am planning to get married to an Iranian lady. We would like to visit Iran soon after our wedding.
We are planning to have kids in couple of years after our wedding. But I would like to know, can we both go to Iran with my kinds who are non Muslims and who do not have an Iranian Passport.
I have Indian Passport and My Wife with Iranian Passport
Our children ( future) – U.S passport.
Depending upon the outcome, we will be able to decide our future. I am open for any other means to visit Iran with my kids to see Iran.
I really love my girl very much. I do not want to miss her, but at the same time, I cannot afford to change my religion at any cost.
Thank you very much for your time and help.
June 27, 2010 at 10:48 am
Before going to the point of marriage, first try to make a contact with the girl and ensure that she is willing to marry you and that there should be no hindrance on both sides.
Marrying a girl in Iran is a bit difficult as I had tried it before, but that marrying an iranian girl in your country is very easy to the point that you can invite the girl into your country and then have the marriage and than you can go and visit her country of Iran.
Also ensure that the girl is in the liking for you and in vogue (current state of general acceptance ) for you. Also while initiating a chat make sure that you have all the transcripts for that and then enter the arena
July 19, 2010 at 6:43 pm
Also one more word of caution. Before moving with the concept of marriage with the girl in Iran, ensure that you have also the support of the family and friends so that there is not much of a hinge in marriage.
August 9, 2010 at 2:01 am
hi Shahrzad my name is kelvin am form the US i meet my girlfriend in Iran when i want there to play basketball both of Us are christian am planing of getting married to her but i need someone to help me. do you think is going to be very hard to get marry to her ? and what are the things i need to do to bring her to the state i need help asap i love her so much. and do i have to pay for her hand and how much is it pls need help here been calling friends over there trying to get all the info but still nothing thank you very much
September 27, 2010 at 9:55 pm
Hi Ms.shahrzad..i meet an iranian woman we use to know each other for 2 years, i already meet her parents when i visit iran twice. for the third time i wan to visit iran to ask her parents to marry me. but she said her parents cannot accept my proposal if i dont have a job or established my self in iran. rigth now i cant afford to quit my job.
The only way i have in mind is to be stablished in iran is to buy property or engage in a bussiness. while im working outside iran.- Is that possible for a foreigner can buy a property or engage in a bussiness in iran?
Please advice me since i dont have any idea about the laws of iran?
She suggest the ill buy car to rent or taxi which she said its a good bussines. but can i bought a car and name it to me even im holding a tourist visa?
Please advice me what i need to do so ican stablished in iran.
Thank you,
September 28, 2010 at 1:27 am
I am more than happy to meet an Iranian girl and marry and try and give her the best i have.I.m willing to convert to islam if i meet the right woman.She has to be able to communicate in English the best she can .
October 6, 2010 at 12:17 pm
Hello I’m Gaurav From India.
I’m Hindu by religion and a non-Muslim.
I just want to ask, can I go to Iran and find an Iranian bride.
After marriage, she will automatically get permanent citizenship of India. But what concerns me a lot is the fact whether deportation of her will be legally smooth or not?
Can you please guide me on this.
Also can you please tell me a genuine matrimonial website to find an Iranian bride.
Rds, Gaurav
I’m decent looking man, healthy, bachelor (never married),
financially well-settled, Age 26 living in Mumbai, India.
October 14, 2010 at 11:15 am
Salam Shahrzad
How a non-iranian muslem can marry an iranian girl?
October 15, 2010 at 11:22 am
Hi, I am 29 years old indian. I am loving a iranian girl for past 2 years and i was visit last month to my girl and them family. Every one accept for our marriage. but they dont know clearly wat are all the documents i need to submit the government for marriage registration. When i will go to iran as a toursit can i marry my girl. whats the procedure to marry my girl easy. please advice me. thanks in advance. my life is on ur hands. help us.
November 13, 2010 at 12:30 pm
Hi Shahrzad, im an Iranian Girl, ive met a Pakistani boy 3 years ago and now we have decided to marry, he is resident in spain, but our bad luck nearly 1.5 years ago when my bf went to pakistan to visit his family, because of some situations he was objected to marry a pakistani girl and offcourse left there after 10 days and didnt go back there, my family know about this matter and my father admited i have this marriage, now as i know we have to have proof of his marital status and if not, Iranian government wont admit our marriage, we have decided to go to turkey for marriage, do YOu think it will help us and please let me know if YOu have any suggestion for us,
Thanks for YOur kind attention, im eagerly waiting for Your response
November 21, 2010 at 10:54 pm
Salam Shahrzad:
Thank you for taking your time to give free advice to us non-Iranians. You must have a good and kind heart.
I live permanently in USA, but I am originally from India. I want to find a Iranian Muslim bride. I have checked several dating websites online and they are a waste of money. Can I put an advertisement in a popular newspaper that is widely read by Iranian girls or their parents? If so, can you recommend several Iranian newspapers where I can put Matrimony advertisements? Do you think that Farsi/Persian newspapers are better than English newspapers (eg: Tehran-Times) for this purpose? Also, are their professional matrimony agencies/persons that I can hire/pay to help me find an Iranian girl for marriage?
December 26, 2010 at 11:40 pm
salam to all, I am indian muslim, I am in love with iranian girl. we were met in internet..past 10 days she’s didn’t call, msgs, no responce..I LOVE HER SO MUCH but today she’s come to chat and she said..her parents can’t believe me. but she’s believe me. I told to her just wait for some days. I will give my all details but she told me she’s so confuse about her parents suggestion……. plz anyone can help me what can I do..I want to live with her always…please help me
January 13, 2011 at 11:26 am
Salam Khan:
I too am from South India and am in love with an Iranian Girl. To try to answer your question: to an Iranian girl, the permission and suggestion of her parents are critically important– I think it is a Persian cultural issue and not so much a Shi’a issue. Know that it’s a positive thing that you’re a muslim so that religion will not be a problem for both of you. I think you need to find a way to approach her father and impress and assure him with your qualifications (education, job, finances, etc.) and show that his daughter will be financially well supported in India and that you will be a faithful, loving husband to his daughter and you will be a respectful son-in-law to her family.
I wish you and your GF best of Luck!
– Umesh (living in european country)
January 13, 2011 at 6:17 pm
salam umesh,
I am too south india. r u married iran girl?. what are all the procedure u done for the marriage. What are all the documents you applied for the government. please tell me clear abt the process. thanks in advance.
January 16, 2011 at 10:53 pm
Salam Creativel:
No, I am not yet married to my Iranian soulmate. She will visit me on a tourist visa in Europe and we plan to marry then.
Here are some useful notes/posts from this website that might be of use to you and your Iranian GF. They were posted by Shahrzad and Nauman.
************Shahrzad Said************
- In Iran Civil marriage and Nikah are all together. So You will have permission for Nikah, once you finished the legal process and papers.
- For further information, i’ll advice you to check with Iranian Embassy in India before coming to Iran. They will tell you the fastest and easiest way and you do not waste much time in Iran that way.
- Before moving with the concept of marriage with the girl in Iran, ensure that you have also the support of the family and friends so that there is not much of a hinge in marriage.
************Nauman Said************
- I am from Pakistan and working & living between Dubai / Saudi Arabia for last three years.
- We have both checked documents lists required from Irani government (Ministry of Foreign Affairs) and also my fiancee contacted the Government office in Tehran who gave her a list of documents. We have matched both lists and they are same.
- I am now preparing documents on my side and she is preparing her documents. The documents then have to be submitted to Irani government in person by myself and my fiancee.
- Then they will call me for an interview in 2 weeks (I have to stay in Iran during this time) and after that will take another 2 months to register / approve everything. I think the total process will take about 4-6 months, start to finish and we both have to wait.
- I have contacted Iranian embassy in Pakistan and they asked me to contact Irani Foreign ministry and follow their process (that we are doing now).
- If you have any other suggestions or know of any usual problems (rejection reasons) then please let me know.
Good Luck to both of You!
– Umesh (living in European country)
January 24, 2011 at 9:51 pm
hi .im a christian and i got engaged to an iranian girl in iran …after her parents agreed to every thing ,,she is going to be here in india very soon..to get married …..we will be getting married in the registrars office…every thing is good and will be taken care of here …as for the legal issues in india without any problems……..but i hear there are other issues i have to consider ….if not she will not be able to go to iran ..or if she goes she wont be able to come back to india ……..im in need of help or advice ….who can guide me in the right way of doing this …and the easiest way ……please do help i will be really grateful….and of course im not the only 1 here there are many people married and having a beautiful life together ,,,i wish to be like them …and there will be many more of us ….comming in the future ,,like us ,,,it could help them …too …i have been searching …for info for quite some time but in vain ….no place could give me the right and correct information …….do i really have to get the marriage registered in iran …and if i dont ..what happens ..please …if any one comes across my post and feels the need to help me please do ….have a nice life you all ………
February 4, 2011 at 12:16 pm
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I travelled to Burkina Faso to withdraw the money so that I can start a better life and take care of myself. On my arrival, the Branch manager of the Bank whom I met in person told me that my father’s instruction to the bank was the money be release to me only when I am married or present a trustee who will help me and invest the money in overseas.
I am in search of an honest and reliable person who will help me and stand as my trustee so that I will present him to the Bank for transfer of the money to his bank account. I have chosen to contact you after my prayers and I believe that you will not betray my trust. But rather take me as your own sister. Though you may wonder why I am so soon revealing myself to you without knowing you,
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Please do keep this only to your self. I beg you not to disclose it till i come over because I am afraid of my wicked uncle, who has threatened to kill me.
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February 9, 2011 at 10:36 pm
salam umesh, thank you so much for your reply…I’m so happy about your reply. umesh I need more information about Iran culture..I’m sunni muslim, she’s shia there is any problem to marry in Iran? past 1 month she didn’t chat freely and she told me her parents can’t believe me..I’m so worry about it. she’s is so perfect girl, she should obey her parents. past one month I’m totally mad, I can’t do anything my life. already I told to her I will submit my all details..but see didn’t reply for my mails, msgs etc..I think she’s is waiting for my details. umesh I would like to say something..now I’m in India..but I will go to Europe next month, past four month I’m waiting for my visa. for my hard luck my visa processing is so slow..now almost complete my visa process and I will go for my own business..umesh I need your advice..she’s so wonderful girl, I wanna live with her always. I can’t live without my soulmate..I will do everything for her. umesh I need your advise thanks friend.
February 10, 2011 at 7:04 am
Salaam Khan:
I’m Shi’a so I didn’t have any sect issues to deal with. My Iranian GF says that as long as the Guy is a faithful Muslim, which sect he belongs to shouldn’t be a big factor. But then again, it all depends on how conservative Shi’a members the Girl and her family are.
If your GF communicated with you, that means she likes you and doesn’t care that you are Sunni. It might be that her parents aren’t happy about your Sunni belief– I don’t know, maybe that’s something you can write and ask her.
Also, if your GF’s parents told her that they don’t believe you, then maybe you can take some action to prove that you’re serious about marrying their daughter. Maybe you can get her phone number and call her parents and speak to her parents or have your parents call and speak to her parents.
If you don’t know her phone number, but you know her name and which city she lives in, you can contact phone-directory-locator in that city in Iran, and get her phone number that way and make direct contact with her parents.
- Umesh
February 11, 2011 at 10:19 pm
salam umesh, thanks a lot. I know her about all, phone, address, etc… but now days she’s totally avoiding me bcoz of her family. already I told to her I will meet you in Iran.. for my hard time I can’t go to Iran. but I will go to Iran and meet my soul very soon and I give her to all my details. when will I meet her really that time I will be perfect of her ( my education, my business and everything). in case her family don’t accept me.. what can I do? that time really I can’t control my self. I think I’m dying… Dear, friend umesh, I need your advise………thank you
March 8, 2011 at 10:34 am
Salam Readers!
Well ! I have a relationship(non-physical) with an iranian girl for the last 4 years & I am trying all my level best to marry her while she is also 100% satisfy. Now, the problem arise here that her father & mother are putting objection that we can’t marry. Perhaps I went to their home many times and ask her hand from her family but they just ignore without any specific reason. I told her parents that if they want me to prove anything (money backup/job/parents relationship/single status etc) , I can get it done. But they told me that it’s impossible where I know is possible because I am a Mouslem, fair looking , etc etc etc too.
Since the last 4 years I have been visitig her twice or thrice in a year without the knowledge of her parents but that is not the way out as we want to marry. I have spend a lot of money but still nothing is going fine.
As I know that her parents are financially strong & also have good source in various department, so I can’t take her out of the country & moreover I don’t like doing this too.
I want to marry her in Iran in the jurisdiction of Iran.
So, can anyone guide me what should I DO?
We can do MUKHALIFAT but again I scare that her parents could win the case by getting it soucred by any judge while I don’t have such power at all.
Well ! Is hard I know but not impossible .
Kindly, guide me on the following issue………..
Anyone’s wise advise will be highly appreciated & if required I can also do any possible favour for the suggestion.
Salam!
March 24, 2011 at 1:52 am
Hi, i´m spanish and i have iranian boyfriend. I wanna go to Iran with him and somebody told me that its better if we get married for go to Iran together it´s true? whats happend if we dont get married? Which one its better way for go to Iran and dont have any problem there? Thanks
March 26, 2011 at 3:30 pm
That still doesn’t address my main concern about marriage: http://andreasmoser.wordpress.com/2011/03/26/why-dont-you-get-married/
May 7, 2011 at 3:04 pm
Shahrzad, I am deeply in love with an iranian girl. I am European christian and she is Muslim. I desperately want to to marry her but there are so many problems caused by iranian authorities…What can I do? I love her family and I love her but Iran is delaying all papers and procedures for our marriage since almost a year. Shahrzad what can i do..:-(
June 22, 2011 at 9:59 pm
salam u,i m very upset.i love an iranian lady n i want to marry her.i m hindu n she is muslim.she also loves me a lot n wanna come to india for me but her family is not allowing her.they wants to get her married with her cousion but she doesn’t want it.we both can’t live without eachother.i m in merchant navy n now i m on leave.plz help us.my mind is not working.u can help us.plzzzzzzzzz
January 15, 2012 at 3:39 am
Religion has nothing to do with a marriage between a man and a woman… When people and governments will understand that, we can all say that we live in a free world…
January 21, 2012 at 9:49 pm
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